Swimsuit

Any one know where to find a cute swim suit under $50??? I'm searching...and coming up with NOTHING!!! I really like this one from Anthropologie:

Or this one from Tommy Hilfiger:
I wasn't going to buy one this season, but mine had an unfortunate accident and is now going to be used solely for work out purposes. HELP

My Friend Karissa's opened a new hair salon and...

She's having a GIVEAWAY!
SALON K (owned by Karissa and Mik Severe) is having a giveaway for this cute Motley Handmade headband. Perfect for summer! To enter go to karissasalon.blogspot.com. Giveaway will end next Wednesday June 10th. GOOD LUCK!

Politiks

While I was in the airport during my travels, I picked up the Wall Street Journal. I usually resist the urge because it generally frustrates me immensely to hear what's going on in our country and the idiots running it..., but I did and read this interesting article I wanted to share. Maybe all of you aren't in to following politics, but this article at least comforted me in knowing there was someone else who shared my view...

The 'Unseen Deserve Empathy, Too
By John Hasnas

"While announcing Sonia Sotomayor as his nominee to the Supreme Court, President Barack Obama praised her as a judge who combined a mastery of the law with "a common touch, a sense of compassion, and an understanding of how the world works and how ordinary people live." This is in keeping with his earlier statement that he wanted to appoint a justice who possessed the "quality of empathy, of understanding and identifying with people's hopes and struggles."

Without casting aspersions on Judge Sotomayor, we may ask whether these are really the characteristics we want in a judge.

Clearly, a good judge must have "an understanding of how the world works and how ordinary people live." Judicial decision-making involves the application of abstract rules to concrete facts; it is impossible to render a proper judicial decision without understanding its practical effect on both the litigants and the wider community.

But what about compassion and empathy? Compassion is defined as a feeling of deep sympathy for those stricken by misfortune, accompanied by a strong desire to alleviate the suffering; empathy is the ability to share in another's emotions, thoughts and feelings. Hence, a compassionate judge would tend to base his or her decisions on sympathy for the unfortunate; an empathetic judge on how the people directly affected by the decision would think and feel. What could be wrong with that?

Frederic Bastiat answered that question in his famous 1850 essay, "What is Seen and What is Not Seen." There the economist and member of the French parliament pointed out that law "produces not only one effect, but a series of effects. Of these effects, the first alone is immediate; it appears simultaneously with its cause; it is seen. The other effects emerge only subsequently; they are not seen; we are fortunate if we foresee them." Bastiat further noted that "[t]here is only one difference between a bad economist and a good one: The bad economist confines himself to the visible effect; the good economist takes into account both the effect that can be seen and those effects that must be foreseen."

This observation is just as true for judges as it is for economists. As important as compassion and empathy are, one can have these feelings only for people that exist and that one knows about -- that is, for those who are "seen."

One can have compassion for workers who lose their jobs when a plant closes. They can be seen. One cannot have compassion for unknown persons in other industries who do not receive job offers when a compassionate government subsidizes an unprofitable plant. The potential employees not hired are unseen.

One can empathize with innocent children born with birth defects. Such children and the adversity they face can be seen. One cannot empathize with as-yet-unborn children in rural communities who may not have access to pediatricians if a judicial decision based on compassion raises the cost of medical malpractice insurance. These children are unseen.

One can feel for unfortunate homeowners about to lose their homes through foreclosure. One cannot feel for unknown individuals who may not be able to afford a home in the future if the compassionate and empathetic protection of current homeowners increases the cost of a mortgage.

In general, one can feel compassion for and empathize with individual plaintiffs in a lawsuit who are facing hardship. They are visible. One cannot feel compassion for or empathize with impersonal corporate defendants, who, should they incur liability, will pass the costs on to consumers, reduce their output, or cut employment. Those who must pay more for products, or are unable to obtain needed goods or services, or cannot find a job are invisible.

The law consists of abstract rules because we know that, as human beings, judges are unable to foresee all of the long-term consequences of their decisions and may be unduly influenced by the immediate, visible effects of these decisions. The rules of law are designed in part to strike the proper balance between the interests of those who are seen and those who are not seen. The purpose of the rules is to enable judges to resist the emotionally engaging temptation to relieve the plight of those they can see and empathize with, even when doing so would be unfair to those they cannot see.

Calling on judges to be compassionate or empathetic is in effect to ask them to undo this balance and favor the seen over the unseen. Paraphrasing Bastiat, if the difference between the bad judge and the good judge is that the bad judge focuses on the visible effects of his or her decisions while the good judge takes into account both the effects that can be seen and those that are unseen, then the compassionate, empathetic judge is very likely to be a bad judge. For this reason, let us hope that Judge Sotomayor proves to be a disappointment to her sponsor."

---Mr. Hasnas is a visiting professor at Duke University School of Law.

Anyone else feel this article speaks volumes about President Obama's ignorance? Or am I just too conservative? I was talking the other day with my dad about this and we started discussing The Founding Fathers and the kind of government our country actually is. According to WikiAnswer:

"The U.S. is a Federal Republic. This means that there is a federation of states with a republican form of government. Unlike what many people expect, it is not a direct democracy. It is a representative democracy. Although many people might say it's a democracy, we actually live in a republican society , which is a political system where the supreme power is held by the citizens who have the right to vote for officials and representatives responsible to them."

Therefore, Republicans seek to protect our republic while Democrats try to push for a more democratic government; more power to the states or to a centralized government. All we need to do is learn from our ancestors who met and worked during the Philadelphia Convention who debated these very issues: Virgina Plan (The Virginia Plan threatened to limit the smaller states' power by making both houses of the legislature proportionate to population) versus New Jersey (Under the New Jersey Plan, the current Congress would remain, but it would be granted new powers, such as the power to levy taxes and force their collection.An executive branch was created, to be elected by Congress (the plan allowed for a multi-person executive). The executives would serve a single term and were subject to recall on the request of state governors.The plan also created a judiciary that would serve for life, to be appointed by the executives.Lastly, any laws set by Congress would take precedence over state laws.) and finally the Connecticut Compromise (Robert Sherman said, "That the proportion of suffrage in the 1st. branch should be according to the respective numbers of free inhabitants; and that in the second branch or Senate, each State should have one vote and no more.")

Well, I just think people don't understand...and they don't care but it is our duty, obligation and RESPONSIBILITY to make informed decisions:) This article shows that just because it sounds good to take from the rich to give to the poor, giving to the poor may not actually help.

I wish I had a video camera to record the beautiful weekend I had last weekend; I went to my friend Brittany's wedding in St. Louis, Missouri It has been like 7 years since I've been to Missouri, and even longer since I've been to St. Louis. Brittany and I have been friends since my Sophomore year at BYU and she has been telling me about her "farm" in Missouri and how cool it was. Funny thing though, she didn't ever describe how absolutely breathtaking the view was!!! The reception was out in Dixon, 2 hours from St. Louis and it was up on a hill that was so majestic it is no wonder the pioneers were disappointed at the Utah Valley view;) So lush and green...It was the perfect evening. The backyard was simply decorated for the festivities, but when the sun set, no paid venue could match in beauty! Here's some pictures from the occasion...

OH yes he's making the grab...

Love ya Brit!!!

secret project

I haven't been posting because every weekend I've been busy working on a secret project...ok, well it's not really a secret, but I'm actually thinking of starting my own business. I need some ideas for a name, and here's the product:)





IDEAS? COMMENTS?

EL DIA DE LA MADRES

Mi madre es fantastica! y la madre de Tyler tambien....bueno, (I just realized I was writing in Spanish and that most of you wouldn't be able to understand what I was talking about...My apologies...) I made some fantastic gifts for my moms for Mothers' Day: For mom Ashby I surprised her with a new temple dress...the history with this gift is that she not only made my temple dress I was married in, but also my wedding dress I took all my pictures in. She is an amazing seamstress...I am not. However, she rarely does anything for herself and has been wearing the same temple dress since the 80's. Not only is her dress out of style (not most important), but doesn't fit her very well. So, I made one to look EXACTLY like the one she made me. Now we are twinners:) It is very flattering on her and has just the right touch of embellishment...Also, before anyone is too impressed, I actually bought the white dress from WhiteElegance and then took off all the stuff they had on the dress and put my own pearls and stuff on.:)

For Tyler's madre, I made her a cute apron. She has some aprons and bought me one of those Flirty Aprons for our wedding, I thought it turned out ADORABLE.

Also, since I was on a sewing rampage, I decided to try to replicate this cute skirt pattern...here is my sister modeling the final product:

My beautiful sister

I was waiting to post until Mothers' Day because I wanted to post pictures of my "projects", but I got home to Colorado and realized my younger sister, Erin, hasn't seen her wedding pictures at all...I decided to help her by making an album and posting some of my favorites here. We had the same photographer and you can notice some similarities:

I tried to post more, but was unsuccessful, so here's the link to the album:

http://picasaweb.google.com.br/carissa.rasmussen/ErinNathanWedding?authkey=Gv1sRgCNXspN6c463VWg#

Our last couple weeks have been very busy:)

April Showers Bring May Flowers

And umbrellas and worms...


I was walking to class this morning and there was a beautiful drizzle. I had to watch my step because the sidewalk was COVERED with worms! It is amazing, the cyclical nature of life...

I always wonder why everyone pops open their umbrella, even when there's just a light pitter pattering of rain. I personally hate them. I think they are sissy. There wasn't enough rain to even linger on my clothes when I got inside...Is their head so sensitive it can't take a little precipitation?

Hope

This is what I wake up to every morning that gives me hope for spring: